Start with the person behind the profile
Whether you are returning to dating or simply ready to meet someone different, you can make your intentions clear here. Older women and younger men do not all want the same thing. Say whether you are hoping for companionship, a relationship or time to get to know someone. Add something personal about your week so the next message has somewhere to go beyond age.
Pearl or the River Walk? Talk about the actual plan
San Antonio's Pearl district and the River Walk provide recognizable starting points for discussing an outing. Choose a specific public venue rather than leaving someone to find you along a whole stretch of river. Check current visitor information, opening arrangements and your route. If a busy destination would make conversation difficult, a shorter coffee meeting near a mutually convenient neighborhood may be a better introduction.
Let an introduction develop at a comfortable pace
After registration and email verification, choose your search area and age preferences. Read interests before sending a Mailbox introduction. An accepted live chat can help you work out a date together, but there is no obligation to accept an invitation. Confirm the time and place before leaving, arrange your own transport and leave room for either person to decide against a second date.
Your questions, answered
Is San Antonio cougar dating only about nightlife?
No. Your interests can include food, art, daytime outings or quiet conversation. Your profile should reflect how you actually like spending time.
Can I begin with messages before meeting?
Yes. Use Mailbox for messages read at a convenient time, or request a live chat. Chat requires the other person's acceptance.